Andrew called me this morning. It was like I suspected. The inmates were in lockdown all day yesterday. He said he is doing fine. He sounds strong. He said they were out "in the yard". I heard a male voice talking to my son. He asked what time it was. He sounded friendly.
I probably shouldn't worry about the other inmates. My son makes friends easily. He has been cautioned to not be too trusting in jail. You can be friendly and respectful, but watch your back, I've been told.
Probably good advice anywhere.
Andrew told me he finally got my letter. I sent him a copy of his mugshot on the Multnomah County Sheriff website. It shows his charges. He now has them listed on the Oregon Department of Corrections website. It is public knowledge, so I am glad my letter wasn't returned to me. I think I'll send him a copy of the DOC page. It looks more official.
It doesn't show his release date yet. That is still being calculated. I think we will all breathe a little easier when we see that date in writing. Knowledge takes away some of the anxiety.
I was right when I told my daughter these 13 months will not be stagnant waiting. Each day will have a challenge.
My son's fiance's mother is still in the hospital. She had surgery on her infected leg but they are keeping her for observation. This is my super busy weekend. The end of the term at the music center. Tomorrow is my piano student recital.
But I told them to let me know if they need my help with the baby, or dinner, or anything.
Being busy makes time go by. But I hope to enjoy this time. Even when it is painful, missing my son, I know that he is taking care of business, and getting stronger and wiser.
Life is not easy. It is filled with speed bumps, as I tell my piano students. But right now I am thankful for all I have. And pray that my son, his fiance, baby and mother-in-law all stay healthy and positive. As I am trying to do.
To be continued...
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